Have you ever heard of Atlas? Think you are sharing the same burden with him by the day you heard your one and only treasured girl friend say, “We are over!” or “We are done! This relationship won't work anymore.” Oouuch! This really hurts, right? You also feel like being slap on your face.
However, I advise you to worry no more because I have six tips to help you out of a very aching breakup of both real world and online dating experience.
1. Refrain yourself from calling her to ask for a second chance.
It's an online dating so it's easy for you to spend an exciting time together with your family and friends. You can watch a movie together or play fun games with your family. You can cry a bit but never hide yourself in your room. Alcohol drinking is also not a good idea so forget about it. It won't ease the pain.
2. Move on and be surrounded with loving people.
It's okay to hope for something but not to false hope like that second chance will still happen in your online dating experience. You will just get hurt. You better release your love for your ex to people who really cares for you.
3.Think positively and get rid of everything that reminds her.
The world is still revolving and online dating is still going on after your breakup. Hide the love letters and photos that will remind you of the past. This is a way of healing the pain. In fact, there are many girls around online who are more deserving than her so forget collapsing.
4. See some new people and try not to see her.
Seeing her will just let you remember the pain. So try socializing other people to give you a new and fresher world. Slowly but will surely let you forget the past heartache.
5. Forgive and forget. Never keep any hatred towards your ex.
This won't be helpful for your recovery. Instead fall in love again. Last breakup does not mean the end rather a stepping stone of learning and do better next time.
6. Avoid the things you do together as you heal your broken heart.
Try joining an organization or an online social community you ever wanted to be part of. Lastly, accept that everything between you is already over. Period!
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